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V\u0161imn\u011bte si, \u017ee i my dnes d\u011bl\u00e1me podobn\u00e9 chyby, kter\u00e9 […]","datePublished":"2025-03-06","dateModified":"2025-03-06","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.nopills.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.nopills.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/93869824c8aa580f0d16049ad31e69846ffc925e0cbb2826cc9554f53943da69?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/93869824c8aa580f0d16049ad31e69846ffc925e0cbb2826cc9554f53943da69?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"nopills.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.nopills.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a305799_w2159_t1517224695.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.nopills.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a305799_w2159_t1517224695.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.nopills.cz\/vzorem-jsou-rodice\/","wordCount":475,"articleBody":"To je bohu\u017eel hol\u00e1 pravda. V\u0161imn\u011bte si, \u017ee i my dnes d\u011bl\u00e1me podobn\u00e9 chyby, kter\u00e9 jsme vid\u011bli u sv\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f. Kdy\u017e jste byli je\u0161t\u011b d\u011btmi, tak jste si \u0159\u00edkali 100 x, \u017ee takov\u00ed nebudete a te\u010f p\u0159ed sebou m\u00e1te obraz t\u011bch nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edch. Rodi\u010d je toti\u017e ten, kter\u00fd m\u00e1 na d\u011bti nejprvotn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed vliv a co do n\u011bj zasad\u00ed, bude i pozd\u011bji skl\u00edzet. Je jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed na\u0161e chyby a omyly p\u0159en\u00e9st na n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho, proto\u017ee pak nejsme pod t\u00edhou viny. Ov\u0161em p\u0159iznat si pravdu a pokusit se v\u011bci napravit to je nejen krok vp\u0159ed, ale i ke spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 v\u00fdchov\u011b.\tHranice jsou d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9Nem\u011bli bychom v\u0161echny nedostatky sv\u00e1d\u011bt na spole\u010dnost, dobu a kamar\u00e1dy. Bohu\u017eel za mnoh\u00fdmi probl\u00e9my stoj\u00edme pr\u00e1v\u011b my. Dok\u00e1\u017eeme sice stanovit n\u011bjak\u00e9 hranice, kam chceme, aby d\u00edt\u011b do\u0161lo, ale nedok\u00e1\u017eeme je sami dodr\u017eet. Proto jdou za hranice a zkou\u0161\u00ed, co to s\u00a0n\u00e1mi ud\u011bl\u00e1. Kdy\u017e nic, pro\u010d by nemohly pokra\u010dovat v\u00a0cest\u011b, kdyby tam bylo nebezpe\u010d\u00ed, rodi\u010d by p\u0159ece zas\u00e1hl.Jestli\u017ee rodi\u010d vyty\u010d\u00ed mantinely, stanov\u00ed hranice a podm\u00ednky jejich dodr\u017een\u00ed, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b i trest za jejich nedodr\u017een\u00ed, tak on je prvotn\u011b zodpov\u011bdn\u00fd za to, jak se situace bude d\u00e1le vyv\u00edjet. Zde d\u011bl\u00e1me nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00ed chyby.Uvedu p\u0159\u00edklad. Rodi\u010d \u0159ekne d\u00edt\u011bti, dokud si neuklid\u00ed\u0161 pokoj\u00edk, nebude\u0161 se d\u00edvat na poh\u00e1dku, ale pak mu s\u00e1m pust\u00ed televizi, aby m\u011bl \u010das na sv\u00e9 v\u011bci. Jak m\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b rozpoznat, kde je hranice? S\u00e1m rodi\u010d je v\u00a0tuto chv\u00edli nedodr\u017eel. Pokud na\u0161e d\u011bti uvid\u00ed, \u017ee na\u0161e slovo je pevn\u00e9 a st\u00e1l\u00e9, nebude jim d\u011blat probl\u00e9my splnit n\u00e1\u0161 po\u017eadavek.Vy jste pro n\u011b autoritaAutoritu si nez\u00edsk\u00e1te t\u00edm, \u017ee budete d\u011bti v\u00edce trestat, k\u0159i\u010det na n\u011b nebo zase opa\u010dn\u011b je neust\u00e1le omlouvat a rozmazlovat. Z\u00edsk\u00e1te j\u00ed ale t\u00edm, \u017ee dodr\u017e\u00edte sv\u00e9 slovo a to i v\u00a0tom p\u0159\u00edpadu, \u017ee v\u00e1m to moc nevyhovuje a rozhodnut\u00ed jste vynesli un\u00e1hlen\u011b.\u00a0 Mus\u00edte se nau\u010dit jednat s\u00a0d\u011btmi otev\u0159en\u011b. \u0158\u00edct jim co po nich chcete, ale tak\u00e9 pro\u010d. Mus\u00edte se nau\u010dit p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161et do jejich \u017eivot\u016f smysl. Takov\u00fd je spr\u00e1vn\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00ed z\u00e1klad.D\u00edt\u011b nen\u00ed rozhodn\u011b n\u011bjak\u00e1 hra\u010dka, ale osobnost, kter\u00e1 pot\u0159ebuje va\u0161i podporu a l\u00e1sku.Budujte vztahy s\u00a0nimi od po\u010d\u00e1tku, proto\u017ee jedin\u011b tak budou funk\u010dn\u00ed i v\u00a0budoucnosti.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Vzorem jsou rodi\u010de","item":"https:\/\/www.nopills.cz\/vzorem-jsou-rodice\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]